What makes a "good submissive"

Before I start running on about how I've vetting my subs I feel like the subject of what makes a "good sub" should be breached first.

There's really no such thing as a "good sub" it's like asking what makes you a good gay person. It's just who you are, you shouldn't put people in the box like this.

And the little box fives subs too much pressure! 

The submissive mainly is there to follow rules and guidance of the Domme (female Dom). After pre-agreed upon rules and guidelines have been stated in a contract.

I love my contracts. It gives both parties everything out on the table. Including fetishes list and limits. Both are super important. Same as what both parties are into. 

Because, after all, all that submissive wants is to let go and let someone else be in charge for them. No more worries. Just a happy space.

So all in all there's no such thing as a "good submissive" those two words are just ridiculous amount of pressure someone decided to put on poor subs. Don't think about a "good" or "bad" just focus on who you are, your dynamic, and desires.

But there is such a thing as a "bad Dominant" and that I'll go over later. And no, they can't be held to the same standard because both subs and Dommes play different roles but without one there wouldn't be the other.