And so it begins...

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I'm a Mistress that haven't had her own sub in a couple of years and I feel rather rusty in some of my skills.

So I went back to talking to subs once more during the time of plague. There are no in person things that can happen because, once again, plague.

I decided to start this kind of blog to show, perhaps to myself than any other people, how it's going and have my own way of checking in with myself.

This is going to be me talking to myself, perhaps. Or just voicing my opinions, likes, dislikes, and ideas. Or fully random shit.

But here's my journey. During plague. 

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