Reading
It seems it's a dying trait worth holding to a higher standard. At this time I am looking only for friendship of like minded people. My profiles state that. It is literally the 2nd sentence after what I'm looking for on my profiles. So this is my crabby rant about how to be a kind person and not look like an asshole prematurely: Read profiles. They tend to have important information on them. And the flow of what kind of person you are messaging. You can tell a lot about a person through their profile. Which is why I always am weary when those without at least a profile sentence message me. Moral of the story is, don't rendomly show up on someone's inbox proclaiming to be the best of the best and wanting to be owned when the person isn't in the market and only wants friendships because they've got who and what they want already and it's working great for them.