Mistress Says So

Consent.  That one word that gets everyone into some kind of mental red light and taken either to mock or to avoid or to treat with respect. For some it's a good topic while for others it is a horrible reminder of things that shouldn't have happened.  Consent is a fragile thing that always needs to be revisited. From time to time.  In every relationship there is a base of rules where "no" means no and "no" is a complete sentence where you don't need to justify yourself or answer why your answer was no when asked rudely. If it's asked for clarification nicely, that becomes a good thing an a learning experience for the one that doesn't understand.  Consent is even in romantic relationships and in marriage. No one owes anyone anything. And it's especially important to note that it's no one's "right" to anything of the others body if met with a firm no. It isn't your right to molest someone just because you're together o...

You gotta love the double standard when it comes to new submissive vs new Dominant.  New sub and all the Doms go "Shiny!" New Dom and all the subs go "Stranger danger!" However, it's understandable. A lot relies on a Dom. And how much they will accidentally make a mistraks that could deeply injure a sub. While subs run on a "Shiny" frenzy and wanna try everything at once because it's so great and new and omg! Chill. To which I say mentorship should still be a thing. I strongly urge people to do that because having a good guide in the dark is very good in this lifestyle. Someone who teaches you what not to do or to do and why or where not or what can go wrong and why. It's much better than making that huge mistake by yourself with a sub and both don't know what went wrong, how, or why. Recently I watched a sub be "Shiny" all over and had a Domme take them with, let's say less than good, intentions in mind. Too many red flags. L...